There are no Rules by Ralph Havens *

An interview with Ralph Havens

 What do you do?

I help people heal.

I help people transform in physical as well as in emotional, mental, and spiritual ways.

I help people get healthy, so that they can get on with doing what they are here to do.

How do you do it?

I interact with something that is beyond words or names.  Grace could be a name for it, but it really is beyond words.  When I do that people heal and transform.

But, how does it work?

I don’t know.

There are many things I don’t know, yet I can still use it.  I don’t know how Skype works or cell phones or even fax machines.  I don’t even truly know how my truck works.  Yet, I can still use them and use them well with predictable results.


It’s the same way with what I use to help people heal and transform.

What happens when you work with someone?

Stuff changes.  Conditions, pains, problems change.  I’ve seen miracles.  I see miracles daily.  People tell me days, weeks and even months later how much continues to change after their sessions.


How did you get to the place where you could do this?

I studied a lot of healing methods over the past 30 years.

I’ve worked on myself with these methods, obsessively for 30 years.

I made a decision long ago to go where the Truth is and to go with what works no matter where that took me.

I kept testing and re-testing my results and kept what worked and let go of what wasn’t working.

I found that it’s becoming clearer to me that it’s really about Love.

What do you mean by, ‘where the truth is’ and ‘it’s really about love’?

I found by direct experience that healing and transformation is really simpler than I ever imagined; not always easier, but simpler.  It’s about letting go of what is not absolutely true.

As I continued to see how much I didn’t know; absolutely know, what showed up was Love.

Again, a word that doesn’t really do it justice.  It’s not a thinking or figuring it out thing.

I found there is a way to truly let go; To trust and play and be Love; pure unconditional Love.  That’s when Grace shows up and everything changes.

So do you do anything in your sessions?  What does a session look like?

Look, with all the training I’ve done, I can use a lot of evaluation methods to look at what is going on with someone.  And I do.

I listen to them.  I look at their medical history.  I ask them what they would like to heal or change.

I can use physical and energetic methods to evaluate what is going on.  And I can use physical and energetic techniques to help people heal.  They may be standing, sitting or lying down.

I actually do about half of my sessions over Skype or phone with people all over the world.  So the sessions can look quite different from one session to another.

Each session is truly unique.  I use whatever is useful for the person to help them heal.  I am in a state of grace.  Again words don’t do it justice.

Then I re-test stuff.  I check to see what has changed. How has their condition; what they came in to heal changed?   And over the days and weeks the person gets to see what else has changed and continues to change.

Can you tell me more about what you think you are doing?

Ultimately, I don’t think any of us know what we’re doing.  I could come up with some ideas around physical healing or energetic healing.   I could talk about principles in physics that could explain it.  But I really don’t know how the healing occurs.

Heck, even to think that something wasn’t already perfect and needed healing has some assumptions built into it.   I’m ok with not knowing absolutely.  And believe me I’ve been searching for answers to this for years.  It’s ok to not know and it’s ok to be somewhat confused.

As Arthur C. Clarke said, “Any sufficiently advanced technology is indistinguishable from magic.”

I feel I’m playing a game and using all my skills to help someone heal and achieve their goals, while at the same time, realizing I may not know the absolute Truth of what is going on.

The cool part is people’s experiences of life change after interacting with me and whatever this is.  Healing and Transformation show up and people’s lives improve.

November 18th, 2015


Ralph Havens  Bellingham Physical Therapy and worldwide via Phone & Skype

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Bellingham Physical Therapy and worldwide via Phone & Skype

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Manifesting Financial Abundance ~ A Transmission from Ralph Havens *

The Gift

What if we already had in our possession, a gift.  A gift from The Infinite; from God.  A way to create your own reality?  What if you were already doing it now.


If you’re reading this, then you’ve probably already done a lot to heal and transform your finances and relationships and conditions.  You already do this now.    

If you might be interested in a way to do this energetically and using this gift from God or the Infinite, check this video and audio out.

This creates real and tangible differences.  What would it feel like to already have what you have desired?  What might you think?  What might you feel and what might you imagine that to be?

I’ve created an audio of A Transmission for Financial Abundance *

it’s something we’ve found that’s been right under our noses for a long time and is a gift from the infinite to each of us.

We’ve all been in possession of it and many of us know it intellectually but not actually, as we have been using it for manifestation of stuff we don’t want. A lot of what we’ve all heard before.

The difference is this is an audio transmission to shift the patterns which have been in the way of knowing it;

really knowing it;

If you knew this to be true, would you think, feel and imagine how you’ve been thinking, feeling, and imagining.

I’ll include a link to it as well as a video about it. There have been some very cool success stories and I’d love to do this for you. en joy…/

Video about the transmission from Ralph Havens,

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A transmission for your financial abundance

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Manifestation ~ A Transmission for your financial abundance *

How to manifest?

How is it that you can make some things happen in life and not others?

Why is it that sometimes you keep attracting pain or limitations in money into your life?

what does thoughts, beliefs, emotions have to do with it?

How about faith?

I’ve made an audio to help you tune into the vibration or frequency of Financial Abundance.

You’ve done a lot to manifest  in your life. Some you want and other things you’re manifesting that are not so useful.

This Transmission for you uses technologies from Manifestation and from Energetics so you can be tuned into the infinite as well as have tools to use to continue to resonate with financial abundance.

check it out here.

Manifestation   A Transmission

A Transmission

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How to Heal and Transform ~ with Ralph Havens ~ Presentation, Demo, gathering, storytelling


This next Tuesday, September 29th, 2015, I’ll be presenting How I use Healing and Transformation technologies to help people heal, shift, change and transform.

We’ll be at the downtown co op in Bellingham, Wa in the new Connections building at 6:30 pm on Sept 29th.

Here’s the link

I feel it’s about helping you fix up your body and heal so that you can get on with what you are here to do.

In the 30+ years I’ve been practicing first as a physical therapist, then as a therapist trained in cranial sacral and visceral manipulation techniques and now as an energy medicine practitioner, I’ve found more and more ways to help people heal.  I’ve healed myself from a pretty scary condition.

I have people from all over the world that are part of our healing and transformation sessions each Thursday morning.

I’ve seen miracles over the years and feel inspired by what has shifted for clients over the years.

What I’ve noticed is that as my clients heal, they also transform.  I’ve noticed a common idea that goes through many of the methods I’ve used and am still using to help people heal.

First you fix up the body.  As a physical therapist, most people came to me for physical healing.  Now, people seek me out for healing of many aspects of their life.  I still feel it’s useful to help someone fix up their physical body.

With some of the integrative manual therapies and energy medicine technologies, the emotional, mental and spiritual stuff shifts.  I call this some of the “why” someone is really coming in to see me; what you may really be wanting.

Many times this emotional, mental and spiritual stuff is part of the reason some one may have a physical condition. Shifting these non-physical areas can help someone heal physical issues.  These are gentle and effective technologies that help someone with their healing of these areas.  It’s about shifting patterns that are holding you back.

What can happen as you heal physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually is possibly even more of the “why” you might seek out a session.  Your heart’s desires can show up.  Your connection to spirit.

Your Heart’s Desires; your path and purpose; the “what you are here to do” can come in.  Connecting to your heart’s desires and doing what you’re here to do can show up with these sessions.   The unexpected miracles and epiphanies can show up.  I had a client tell me she was so glad she to have had a shoulder problem; otherwise she wouldn’t have come in for sessions and the other miracles would not have shown up.  Here’s a link to that story.  

So what I see for the group presentation on the 29th of September is a demonstration of various ways this can show up.

I’ll be telling stories of how I came to find this information and these technologies and what I’ve seen over the years.  Then,

I’ll have a few people come up and we’ll use these technologies to help someone with their healing.

Well use Matrix Energetics and notice how some thing can shift in a moment.

We’ll use Integrative Manual Therapy to show how we can use a technology of methods and techniques to fix up a condition.

And we’ll use Qigong and other technologies to show you how you can access this innate healing potential of the energy or space that you already are on a daily basis.

Ultimately I feel what happens in these sessions is what might be called a Transmission.  A healing frequency is here and this is what you tune into.  This is what heals.  It might not even be called a Transmission because that implies someone or something sending some energy to you.

I feel in might better be called a resonance.  You can start to resonate with a state of being that has information for you.  And this information has the stuff that you need to live and be in a different reality;  one with health and wellness and abundance.

We’ll be playing with this and so much more as we meet at the Downtown Co op’s new Connections building in downtown Bellingham, WA on Tuesday September 29th, 2015 at 6:30 pm.

I hope to see you there!




Ralph Havens


Anything is possible !

Anything is possible !



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Talks and Demos for Medical Professionals ~ Integrating traditional with subtle energy models by Ralph Havens

If anyone in Bellingham knows of groups of practitioners or doctors who might like to hear about how I’ve integrated traditional therapy with the more esoteric and subtle energy models I’d love to hear from you. I’m looking to speak and share for medical doctors and other practitioners in Bellingham, Wa. please send them my way.


I wanted to introduce myself to you and let you know about how we might be able to help with your continuing education for the medical and allied health staff.

I’d love to talk with you some time if you might be interested. I have found a way that integrates the traditional ways of looking at patients and the more esoteric and subtle energy ways of interacting with them.

I found that by testing and then re-testing real signs and symptoms, such as ranges of motion or pain or other medical tests, I was able to see what actually worked to shift patterns in clients. I’ve been doing this for over 30 years now.

I do in-services and talks/ demos around town and I would like to talk with you to see if it is something that might fit into your integrative medical model. The in-services are a fun way to introduce doctors and practitioners to other possibilities for healing. *

Ralph Havens​
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Jennifer Toussant Havens​


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Abundance ~ Flow ~ something I learned from Ming Tong Gu of Wisdom Healing Qigong

We had an amazing class from Ming Tong Gu of Wisdom Healing Qigong yesterday


here’s one bit of wisdom from Ming Tong about flow and abundance.


One way to think about money is to think of it like flow.  Here’s a good way to feel it.
Place your left hand above your head and think / feel of the flow from the universe coming into your hand and flowing into your body.
Now place your right hand out in front of you and think / feel the flow leaving that hand into the universe.
This is flow of abundance, energy.
Now close your left hand and feel how it stops flow
then open the left hand and feel the flow again.
now feel the flow into the left hand and flow out of the right hand.
now close the right hand and notice the stop in flow.
it’s about flow.
if you limit the inflow it stops flow
but if you also limit the out flow it limits flow.
that’s how helping someone get what you want is useful.  it is about flow.  Giving is just as important as receiving
receiving is just as important as giving.
stopping either one, limits flow.
please pass this along to anyone who might use my help.
anyone dealign with a condition or pain or thing that they’d like to change or heal or transform.
   *Healing & Transformation Sherpa*
Ralph Havens, PT, OCS, IMTC
Certified Matrix Energetics Practitioner
360.599.2217   *   619.840.9755
Ralph Havens and Jen Havens of Ralph Havens Physical Therapy, Bellingham, Wa and worldwide via phone and Skype

Ralph Havens and Jen Havens of Ralph Havens Physical Therapy, Bellingham, Wa and worldwide via phone and Skype

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Noticing from Your Future Self *

Noticing from Your Future Self

This week’s Good Things Happen on Thursdays just went to Done.

I”ve set it up so that a shift happens simply by reading this.  Try it and let me know what you notice

and what you notice that’s different.  I’m putting a few links of some encoded Healing and Transformation Sessions.

I recommend you test something that you can test right now; like how your neck moves or how your back bends or walk around or test something that you can re-test after reading these links.  I’ve written about what the mechanics of how this works might be. But ultimately we don’t know.  The cool thing is to notice what is different and then over the days and weeks notice how life is different.  Send me an email and let me know.  360.599.2217 *

here’s today’s session

and some other links you can use with this test and re-test idea and see which ones make the biggest shifts for you.

What is true healing and transformation

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True Healing

If something were to change right now for you, what might that be?   If there was something to heal or transform for you now, what might that be?   Notice what’s different after reading this article….

What is True Healing?

If you were to transform what might you be?  What are you here to do?

Telos:  an ultimate aim or objective,  what you are meant to be.   An acorn’s telos is to be an oak tree.

That is what it is here to be.   What are you here to be?  What is your Telos?

And what does physics or science have to do with Healing and Transformation?

I was new to Bellingham, Washington back in October of 2013.  We arrived from San Diego in our truck with our tent after camping all summer around Portland and Oregon looking for where we were to live.   We knew we had to leave San Diego and California but we just didn’t know where to live; where to be?  More on the whys of that another time.

I had found my new running group and was running amazing trails in Bellingham.  One of the runners is a school teacher and she told me her school was having science night and I could come and have a booth.  The theme was How I use Science in my Occupation.

Funny;  Occupation: Occupy…… do you really want to be occupied by your job?  What constraints are you under in order to be part of your occupation?

So of course I jumped at this chance.  I love doing demos of our work and this would be awesome.  But how to do it?

Usually in my talks and demos of what I do and how I do it, I take a participant up on stage and do a session for them; to help them heal and transform.   But I couldn’t do that with high school students.  There was the parental consent.  I would’t want someone doing a treatment on my child without my consent.

So then I realized….   The field or the space of what we’re all in can do it and I set up a rule set.

so here’s where it gets spooky; what Einstein called “spooky action at a distance”.

I want you all to test something.  If something were to change for you right now; and I mean anything and everything you want; what might that be?  Think about it a moment….   Now get that.  Set it as an intention and then quit thinking about it.

Ok, now,  can you test it right now?  By that I mean if it’s a back pain or other pain or condition to get rid of can you test it now?  That way you can re-test it right after you read this again and see what’s different.  Go ahead and move your arms and legs and your back and neck or what ever you need to do to test your condition.

If it’s something like finances or a relationship or lack of a relationship thing then you can test it out over time and see what is different the rest of the day and week.

What do you notice that ’s different after reading this?

Ok,  so back to the high school Science Fair *  So I made a rule set.  I decided that whenever anyone reads the paper I wrote for the Science Fair, they would have massive change, massive transformation on all levels for them and anyone they were connected with.  I wouldn’t have to do anything.  There would be no “treatment” involved.     So I wrote this article.

And I sat at my table at the Science Fair.

The kids were to visit the tables and get a stamp so they could collect them as part of their assignment.  So I had them coming around and some adults too.  It was a big fair and it’s a great high school with great kids. I had a blast hanging out with them.

And as they sat there, I told them to test something; anything.  Like how their shoulders moved or their arms or neck or back or to walk around first; bend or test something.   If something could change right now what might that be? *   And I sat there.

And after they read the article, they re-tested…..   And that’s when it got interesting.  They changed!  They moved better.  Aches and pains were no longer there.  They got excited.  They brought their friends over to my table.   It was pure magic.  People were changing, healing, transforming.

What does physics have to do with healing?  Here’s that article I wrote

You’ve been told how the world works.  You’ve taken the classes and studied and worked hard to do what you do.  You have ideas on how the world works and how you’re supposed to be and interact with the world.  You’ve done a lot to get ahead.  You are doing this now.  You do this now.

You might want to notice how you are different now since reading this.  Retest what you tested before reading this.

If you were to let go of what you think is possible or impossible even for a moment right now, what might you notice?  What might you notice that’s different.   Let me know.

I love hearing the stories.  For stories of what others have noticed with this stuff.

What is true Healing?  What is true Transformation?

If you were to line up with your True Heart’s Desires, what might you be?   What is your Telos?

If you might like to contact me, I’d love to hear what you noticed and what you noticed that’s different.   *

Ralph Havens  Bellingham Physical Therapy and worldwide via Phone & Skype

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Bellingham Physical Therapy and worldwide via Phone & Skype

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Following your path and purpose ~ For what does your heart desire?

My friend Jaime is a medical doctor working with GI disorders. He’s one of my running friends from San Diego. We were all hanging out in his backyard after a great run in the Pennasquitas Canyon. Beautiful trails and great time eating breakfast and hanging out with my friends.

He has an awesome pool. It’s a unique shape and he had many pool guys come by and draw up their plans and tell him what they thought it could look like. The were well educated, had computer programs and very high tech ideas.

Then there was this guy. Who walked in wearing old beat up board shorts and barefoot. and he had a sack of white flour. He just stood there in the backyard not saying anything. Just looking and standing there.

Then he walked around and dropped flour on the ground and mapped out a pool perimeter. Told Jaime what it would look like and that was it.

That’s the guy Jaime hired. How did he know? How did Jaime know? It felt right; he knew. The guy was authentically himself. He was doing what he did. He wasn’t bound by what others thought of him or anything but his work and what he was to do; what he was here to do.

I love this story as it shows what people are really looking for when hiring someone; hiring a doctor, a therapist, a contractor, a painter, or visiting a store or seeing music. You can feel when it’s authentic; when it’s raw; when there is not pretense. When someone is lined up with their heart’s desires; their Telos; path and purpose; their ultimate path and purpose.

you can feel it. you know it. it resonates because it’s what they truly are. It’s what you truly are; you’re authentic self.

here’s more thoughts on healing and transformation and heart’s desires


What is your Telos?  What is your heart’s desires? Those things you keep thinking of; those things you would do if you didn’t need to make money or live a certain way to get by.  What is it that you really want?

What might it feel like to have it? What emotions would you feel?  Go there.

You have done a lot to do what is expected; to get ahead; to play by certain rules; there are things that had to be done and you did it.  There are things you’re doing for really good reasons.  You do this now.

If you might want to drop into the space where your heart’s desires are manifested; are done; what might you feel?  You might want to feel that now. If you might want to live another way and line up with your heart’s desires.  What you are here to do; drop me a line  360.599.2217 .

For what does your heart desire?  If you might like a session to play in this infinite and drop into the space where it’s done you can call me or email me.


Ralph Havens

Healing and Transformation Sherpa

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Ralph Havens and Jen Havens of Ralph Havens Physical Therapy, Bellingham, Wa and worldwide via phone and Skype

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Ideas around healing and transformation

When miracles happen it’s interesting how some times people will not believe they actually occurred.

here’s some cool stories




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